Okay, I’m just going to admit it, and come out and say it.
The first thing you read in the post was a bold face lie.
If you respond to “Hey”, don’t be surprised your relationship is nothing more than “Hey” level.
On a dating site, a generic message is the kiss of death. ” and what I hear is “Please feel free to delete this message.
If I was being honest with the title of this post, I probably would have called it something like “How to write a good first message according to what Single Steve thinks is a good first message, but I’m not really sure you should take my advice because I rarely get responses to my messages”.